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Insights and Resources for Your Mental Health Journey
Welcome to my blog, where I share valuable insights, tips, and resources to support your mental health and well-being. From managing stress and anxiety to building stronger relationships, my articles are designed to empower you with the knowledge and tools you need to live a fulfilling, balanced life.
Explore my latest posts and take a step toward positive change today.
Disclaimer: The information provided on this blog is for general educational and informational purposes only. The information on this blog is not meant or implied to be a substitute for professional mental health treatment or any other professional advice.
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How ADHD Impacts Relationships: Understanding the Challenges and Opportunities
Understanding how ADHD impacts and influences relationships is key to fostering healthier, more supportive connections.
Stacey Alvarez
4 days ago19 min read
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Supporting Children with a Toxic or Narcissistic Co-Parent
As a parent in this situation, it is vital to provide your child with the support, stability, and tools they need to cope with the emotional rollercoaster they face.
Stacey Alvarez
May 2615 min read
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The Illusion—and Legacy—of “Old Happy”
Old Happy becomes an illusion we cling to, a legacy passed down to preserve harmony at the cost of honesty.
Stacey Alvarez
May 2122 min read
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The Four Horsemen: Four Communication Habits That Erode Relationships
Conflict is part of every relationship. But the way we handle conflict can either build trust or quietly break it down.
Stacey Alvarez
May 1317 min read
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Emotional Regulation, Processing, and Resolution: Understanding the Differences
Emotional regulation, emotional processing, and emotional resolution each play a distinct role in how we experience and heal from emotional pain. Understanding the differences between them can be the key to moving from simply surviving emotions to truly healing them.
Stacey Alvarez
May 118 min read
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Through Their Eyes: How Witnessing Abuse Alters Children's Lives
Witnessing emotional or physical abuse can leave deep and lasting scars on children, influencing their development and well-being in profound ways.
Stacey Alvarez
Apr 2115 min read
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How Fear Leads to Suspicion in Codependent Relationships
Codependency is a complex and deeply ingrained pattern that often revolves around the need for approval and the fear of rejection.
Stacey Alvarez
Apr 1414 min read
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The Cost of Keeping Score: How Scorekeeping Harms Relationships
While it may seem like a practical approach to achieving equity, scorekeeping harms relationships and can undermine trust and intimacy.
Stacey Alvarez
Apr 615 min read
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How Lack of Emotional Tolerance Impacts Parent-Child Relationships
A lack of emotional tolerance in parent-child relationships can significantly disrupt the bond between parents and their children.
Stacey Alvarez
Mar 3114 min read
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Transactional Parenting: The Costs of Conditional Love and Approval
Transactional parenting is a parenting style where interactions between parent and child are driven by a system of rewards and punishments.
Stacey Alvarez
Mar 2314 min read
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The Role of Emotional Intolerance in Codependent Relationships
Emotional intolerance is often heightened in codependent individuals who fear that addressing conflict could disrupt the relationship.
Stacey Alvarez
Mar 1510 min read
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Why We Can All Be Gabby Petito: Why No One Is Immune to Abuse
Gabby's story forced us to confront an uncomfortable truth: abuse doesn’t always look the way we expect, and no one is immune to abuse.
Stacey Alvarez
Mar 222 min read
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Behind the Van Life: Breaking Down Brian Laundrie’s Abuse of Gabby Petito
Brian’s behavior repeatedly showed hallmarks of control, manipulation, and emotional abuse—red flags that experts immediately recognized.
Stacey Alvarez
Mar 223 min read
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Power Gap: How Family Dynamics Leave Children Feeling Helpless
Children feeling helpless and out of control within family dynamics can have profound implications on their emotional well-being.
Stacey Alvarez
Feb 2315 min read
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Boundaries: It’s About You, Not About Controlling Others
Boundaries are about protecting your well-being, not about trying to control or change someone else’s behavior.
Stacey Alvarez
Feb 1010 min read
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Balancing Love and Limits: Supporting a Suicidal Loved One Without Enabling
Supporting a loved one who struggles with suicidal thoughts or threatens suicide is a complex and deeply challenging experience.
Stacey Alvarez
Feb 1029 min read
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Teenager Emotional Withdrawal: When It’s Part of Growing Up and When It’s Not
External stressors such as school and family pressures can exacerbate feelings of withdrawal and may indicate deeper underlying concerns.
Stacey Alvarez
Feb 314 min read
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Unseen Wounds: Understanding and Addressing Sibling Abuse
Sibling abuse is often overlooked because it can be mistaken for typical sibling rivalry, leading to dismissing harmful behaviors.
Stacey Alvarez
Jan 2617 min read
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Understanding the Origins of Sibling Abuse
The origins of sibling abuse can often be traced back to a combination of individual, familial, and environmental factors.
Stacey Alvarez
Jan 1918 min read
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Differentiating Sibling Rivalry from Sibling Abuse
While sibling rivalry can be resolved through constructive conflict resolution strategies, sibling abuse demands more serious intervention.
Stacey Alvarez
Jan 1216 min read
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